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Celebrating the legacy of courageous women in early Buddhism
The wisdom of Bhikkhunī Sangha in modern Buddhism

Updated: Apr 6

I began studying Buddhism in the 1970’s while in college, maintained a meditation practice since the mid 1980’s, and participated in several programs of up to 2 years at Spirit Rock and other meditation centers.  As a resident of Cotati, I had been hoping to find a local Sangha where I could meditate, deepen my practice, and connect with other practitioners weekly, since it took almost an hour to drive to Spirit Rock from my home.  After searching online I discovered Dhammadharini.  

I still remember how excited I felt when I first visited the monastery in 2017.  I was lucky enough to arrive on the day of an ordination.  It was a beautiful ceremony, with male and female monks in attendance and guests overflowing into the gardens.  I began participating in their twice weekly meditation sessions and weekly sutta study program.  I particularly enjoyed the Dhamma discussions, both during the formal programs and the more casual conversations over lunch.  The rest of my life didn’t present many opportunities for these kinds of gatherings, so this was a welcome treat!  I appreciated how non-dogmatic and open the monastics were.  There was no “holier than thou” or cult feel to the place, just real human beings committed to their growth and awakening.  I also realized that while I was familiar with Buddhism, I didn’t know very much about monastic life.  My time at the monastery and hermitage gave me a unique perspective and a deeper understanding of the Buddhist path.  

After a few years I began thinking about getting more involved, and as fate would have it, I was invited to join the Board of Directors in 2020.  Since I was the Executive Director of another nonprofit organization and had a degree in organization development, I was excited to use my skills to support the monastery.  The sincerity of the Bhikkhunis, along with the historic nature of Dhammadharini’s vision (“The renaissance of the  Bhikkhuni Sangha . . .”), provided the inspiration.

Over the past 5 years I’ve been privileged to be part of this historic venture.  I’ve had the opportunity to support Dhammadharini through many challenges, including maintaining our programs and community online during the COVID pandemic.  The Buddha’s teachings on attachment and impermanence have been particularly during this time.  This year marks our 20th anniversary!  I look forward to the continued unfolding and growth of our community.

I invite you to attend one of our programs and consider volunteering, joining a committee, or becoming a member of the Board.  You can learn more at our website https://www.dhammadharini.net or by calling the monastery at 1-707-583-9522.


With Gratitude,

Bob








From a Board Member - Bob Flax

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